Sex

Adult Casual Sex Talk – How to have Classy “Sex” Conversations

America seems so challenged by the topic of “Sex”. You can find hundreds of reasons why, but from the information I have collected the biggest reason is feeling judged or ostracized… With this comes feelings of shame or embarrassment.

So I felt compelled to throw on a casual shirt and have a causal talk about it. Who would have ever thought that as an adult, you would need a sex talk too?! 🙂

Amy and Shannon from Milf and Cookies were generous in inviting me on their radio show this morning on TogiNet’s Rockstar Radio Network. They invited another guest Nikki Lundberg – the Somatic Adult Sex Educator – and we had a fun and playful conversation about.

To hear the call visit http://rockstarradionetwork.com/shows/milfandcookies and follow the archives for “9-27-2012”

The more we know about one another, the better chances we have of living the life we desire. So get over to http://www.RealLoveandMarriage.com and start talking!

I look forward to seeing you there!

Cheers,
Howard

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Art & Science of Making Love All of the Time: Quick Tips

In this blog I share with you how you can learn to make love more often in your life. Making Love is both an Art and Science – There are specific strategies to create it as well as how you go about expressing it.

Watch this video and share any strategies or tips on how you make love – the Art and Science!

Call me or email me to register for your complimentary 30-minute consultation @ 661.524.6093 or Howard@RealLoveandMarriage.com

Also, if you’re not ready to talk just yet, shoot me an email inquiring about my program and share with my some things that may be coming up for you.

Sign-up over to the right to receive your Most Valued Needs assessment. It’s a free quiz to learn more about how you perceive the world.

I look forward to connecting with you and supporting you on your journey!

Cheers,
Howard

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Dating and Marriage: Is Trust at Risk in your Intimate Relationships?

Due to the rise in Casual Relationships/Sex over the past 40 years, higher levels of trust are a pre-requisite to investing in long-term relationships.

Researchers have found the utility of abusing trust is higher than honoring it (van de Rijt & Buskens, 2006). Moreover, the utility of no trust is higher than abusing trust!

This game of “Trust” is not necessarily one of rationality, though is certain instances rational behaviors can lead to “sub-optimal” results when the trustor feels their efforts are not being abused.

2 types of goals are pursued in relationships:
1. Transactional Goals: Sex or Favors
2. Relational Goals: Love, Growth, Unity or Contribution

So how does one decide to invest in “Trust” to commit to a long-term relationship?
1. The trustor believes their partner to be relational-goal oriented
2. A persons own interest in marriage and its potential gains
3. Weigh the possibility of potential losses of the investment if the other partner eventually chooses to not commit

The Outcome: Decisions to commit are acted upon in one’s focus of potential gains in the marriage as well as a decrease in their belief of major losses in trust and fidelity.

Call or email for your Complimentary 30 Minute Trust and Intimacy Consultation at 661.524.6093 or Info@HowardCramptonJr.com

Cheers,
Howard
www.howardcramptonjr.com

Reference:
Arnout van de Rijt and Vincent Buskens – Trust in Intimate Relationships: The Increased Importance of Embeddedness for Marriage in the United States. Rationality and Society, May 2006; vol. 18, 2: pp. 123-156.

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