Monthly Archives: August 2012

Love, Relationship and Secrets to Success

Success is experienced on multiple levels and does not just happen when we experience a major shift.

Likewise, Relationship Mastery can be experienced on multiple levels as well… Even something as simple as gazing deeply into your partners eyes.

Follow the link below to get obtain your Seven Secrets to Relationship Skills Mastery. You will also receive up-to-date Quality Information regarding Long-Term Fulfillment with your Romantic Partner, and tips and tools to Maintain Fulfillment in Love and Relationship Mastery.

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Dating and Marriage: Is Trust at Risk in your Intimate Relationships?

Due to the rise in Casual Relationships/Sex over the past 40 years, higher levels of trust are a pre-requisite to investing in long-term relationships.

Researchers have found the utility of abusing trust is higher than honoring it (van de Rijt & Buskens, 2006). Moreover, the utility of no trust is higher than abusing trust!

This game of “Trust” is not necessarily one of rationality, though is certain instances rational behaviors can lead to “sub-optimal” results when the trustor feels their efforts are not being abused.

2 types of goals are pursued in relationships:
1. Transactional Goals: Sex or Favors
2. Relational Goals: Love, Growth, Unity or Contribution

So how does one decide to invest in “Trust” to commit to a long-term relationship?
1. The trustor believes their partner to be relational-goal oriented
2. A persons own interest in marriage and its potential gains
3. Weigh the possibility of potential losses of the investment if the other partner eventually chooses to not commit

The Outcome: Decisions to commit are acted upon in one’s focus of potential gains in the marriage as well as a decrease in their belief of major losses in trust and fidelity.

Call or email for your Complimentary 30 Minute Trust and Intimacy Consultation at 661.524.6093 or Info@HowardCramptonJr.com

Cheers,
Howard
www.howardcramptonjr.com

Reference:
Arnout van de Rijt and Vincent Buskens – Trust in Intimate Relationships: The Increased Importance of Embeddedness for Marriage in the United States. Rationality and Society, May 2006; vol. 18, 2: pp. 123-156.

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